| Okay, so
you've taken a few lessons, and you're ready to get on the floor.
Get out there and kick ass!!! Wait wait, slow down killer,
there's a few things you should know first. Dancing in lessons and
dancing in a social situation on the dance floor are two different things.
Courtesy to Your Partner
- In lessons, you and your partner are used to
helping each other's dancing by talking to each other openly about
what's happening. To be polite, refrain from pointing out what
your partner may be doing wrong on the social dance floor unless they
ask you. Accordingly, feel free to ask your partner for
constructive criticism, but do not expect to get it without asking.
- Don't "surprise" your partner by trying to do an
aerial. Try not to do them on the dance floor at all, but
if you are in a jam circle, they can be acceptable. If that's the
case, make sure your partner knows what you're going to try - to avoid
injury.
- Dance in your own space, that is, don't make your
partner uncomfortable and don't make the dance itself uncomfortable.
- Clean your hands frequently, either with hand
sanitizer or by traditional water and soap. Do this especially
if you are sneezing or coughing into your hands.
- Sometimes you might not want to dance with
somebody who asks you. Be polite and say you are sitting that song
out, or ask if you can catch them for a different
one later on. I promise they won't hate you.
- Leads, if you see your partner headed for disaster(i.e.,
collision), use a move or make one up to get her out of the way smoothly
without hurting her.
- Follows, don't depend on the lead to hold you up.
Make sure you have control of your own body weight.
- Have Fun!
Courtesy to Other Couples
- Don't do aerials on the social dance floor unless
you are in a jam circle or performance; even then, use careful
discretion. If you start hitting other couples while social
dancing you better believe there will be some angry dancers.
- Be conscious of the couples around you.
Leads, if you see your partner headed for disaster (i.e., collision), use
a move or make one up to get her out of the way smoothly without hurting
her. Also, don't kick anyone. Ouch.
Dancing Tips
- Learn the Basic Steps of the
dances you'll be doing. Practice them at home, in the dorm, in class (in
your head of course), anywhere you can.
- Connection and Frame are more important than how
you look dancing. Any partner you have will have much more fun
dancing with you regardless of your skill level, as long as you have
good connection and frame.
- Keep those feet underneath your body. This
will help maintain your body weight and you will get less tired because
you'll be taking smaller steps and traveling less.
Keep 'em small.
- Don't hyper-extend your arm on rock-steps or at
the end of swing-outs. It can be just plain painful, and throw off
your dancing.
Dealing with Experienced Dancers
- Being a new dancer can be intimidating.
Don't be afraid to ask more experienced dancers to dance! The
most valuable things you'll learn for improvement will come as a result
of dancing with experienced dancers in different scenes.
- Don't be afraid to ask an experienced dancer how
your dancing feels, or what you can do better. They're all
friendly and knowledgeable. The same definitely goes for any instructors
you may have.
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